A Guy asks--''My girl friend is a relentless 'Party Girl' - - -What can I do..?

----I am working days and attending college at night to finalize my professional certification. I have neither the time or the money to do more than a one of two dancing and drinking parties a month, much less two or three times a week . Recently she has started going out with the girls-harmless socializing she tells me. This really upsets me, I can't study as my mind drifts away from my lesson work on to wondering just where and with who she is partying. I feel jealousy, loneliness and a kind or grief obviously sicko. I have never experienced such misery before. Somehow, I see this as the beginning of the end of our relationship of more than 2 years. I try to tell myself that might be so--and I had better accept it. I also fear failing the upcoming certification examinations and thereby, losing out on a planned placement opportunity, and a major embarrassment, if I should not pass. Can you calm my mind so I can at least study and retain focus long enough to make the no exception pass or fail examination work.

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Your requests for hypnosis to aid your examination study is very straight forward and as you point out has only been a problem since you are not able to devote adequate time to go out girlfriend and the associated partying and of course, the romance activity she desires. This could change in various ways with new circumstances, so don't be too quick to see this as the end. It might be useful if she asked for the help, but that is unlikely while she is in this social whirlwind.

As a practical matter you need two hypno-scripts 1] To communicate your feelings to your girl friend, and importantly, for you coping, and grasping what her feelings and hopes are, to slow down. Without some reframing in your relationship arena you will continue to suffer.

2] The hypno-script for focused study when under a pass-fail examination pressure.

To do this, takes some further details about your personality and the sort of thoughts that are flooding your mind and undermining your ability to study. We have some clues-- you mentioned to start with, but it's a good guess you did not say them all. An effective hypno-script needs to fit a person as close as a proper key fits a certain lock. When strong disruptions exist, the better match the hypno-script is, the better the chance for the desired results. Any case with such strong interferences, like this one, needs more than any ready made hypno-scripts, but needs precise suggestions that meet the client's authentic needs and issues. Logically best results generally occur when a person's worries, issues and needs are clearly understood and also explains, why any particular results might be derailed with new pressures. You need to set up the working process for study with enough time to cover the material and have your energy at peak performance, at and through the examination event.

Contact me when you are ready, do not wait to the last minute.

Forrest Butler: Hypnosis Master Aedvisor and Hypnosis Practitioner. Best wishes.