Hypnodoc--Help me--I'm going bonkers over having to wake up to a new reality--My dream guy was not totally up front with the truth.

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Going bonkers over having to wake up to a new reality--My dream guy was not totally up front with the truth.

1:24:38 AM/--Its a lonely weekend without my guy--one thirty in the morning--I'm lonely and sad, I don't know where to turn now. I'm too upset to sleep and ended up here at Ingenio.com ---It's caused by this; color="red"> I've been dating a man for most of a year. My painful gut level concern is mostly that I was misled to believe his divorce was final when it was not. His story was that his wife cheated on him with his son's high school coach. He claims they divorced using self-divorce filing through a paralegal color="black">secretary for the divorce procedure and this paralegal, somehow botched the divorce being final. On hearing this, I helped him get an attorney to get this issue cleared up. He now say's the divorce is not going to be pretty and he's got a lot to figure out including the possibility of being taken to the cleaners for his house, money support and access to his son. This new version does not jibe with the earlier story of the no contest involved, self-divorce agreement, he led me to believe had happened. We both are into sports things (and that's how I met him.) We attend week end and he stays over at my place as he lives some distance away. color="#ff0080">This has been one is the happiest times in my life. However, a weekend past, we had the usual great weekend together, but on Monday morning, as he was leaving he began babbling near incoherent about something, things as being "revolting and destructive" about to happening, and that he needed to be left alone for a while. As he left for home he implied that meant, I was not to call him at home, any more, he would call me. Nevertheless in the days following I get emails and amorous text messages from him. He says he's really lonely and depressed and is thinking of seeing a doctor about it. I really loved our happy relationship, and wish to deny that it that was just a sleep over party for him. I ask myself is this the end? Is it me? Do I need some insight into the male mind in a situation like this? I strongly feel I want to support him right now, but feel somehow this not a 100% on the level deal on his part. What can I do to feel whole and happy again?

Hypnosis Master's Response:

This is a very bad situation, you find yourself in --when despite your heartfelt love, things do not unfold as you had believed they were on the way to be, with the fulfillment of the dream guy entering your life. Now suddenly gone off track against an aura of backing out and uncertainty. I can guide you as to redirect your focus to better results, which is through some SELF-REPAIR mind-set changes you need to cope and cushion the blow, the frustration the anger, the grief, should this prove be the end or through his real love for you he fixes things honestly and fairly and comes to you as you envision it. You need help and support right now regardless of how this is to play out as your doubts are fully justified at this point. I understand you wanting to help, but are now shut out. Since this is so new and out of character for him. It might be wise to be his friend and sympathetic listener only as long as he reports process in freeing himself to be with you. If you don't set some boundaries you will end up his mistress as thousands of women do every year. He, presume is in a turmoil mind set and must ask for help, if he understands he needs help. I might, however help you to strengthen and minimize the impact this is having on you. Because this is a truly bad situation, let me guess the questions you avoided. Does this mean he and his wife are back together?-- (It sounds that way), but you should give him some time, as he asks for, to resolve his issues at home one way or the other. It doe not sound like being a married man's mistress or weekend party girl is compatible to your image of yourself. But you can see how a woman might find herself in that position at the end of a chain of events that unfolded contrary to what she really wonted. That men and women use rewritten truths to seize the moment and enjoy things as brilliant new attractions is a universal truth, you may not want to hear. It's too soon to write this guy off and move on, as there is still some hope, that he may yet. do what he has to in order to return to you. Waiting can be in vain and a form of self-torture or if differently, it finally happens, a great reward. The real question now facing you is what to do from here on, grieving, distracted, lonely and nearly crossing over into anxiety, anger and perhaps real . My HYPNOSIS processes are tailored to your issues and stresses need to be at regular interval to keep your life in stable comfort zone. and to unload the suppressed grief, hurt and anger would to offer the the elements of repair you would require probably would require {first weekly drill, month and finally-- do it yourself hypnosis.} This hypnosis method serves to break through the clutter, the fog, the self-lies (yes, you most likely have some too) to reach your subconscious, from there to guide you with specific empowering hypnosis Master's Hypno-Scripts. These are ones best described as useful for those mind states that are destructive to human relations or health, anger, anxiety, frustration, addiction, mood disorders. It's probable that is not the answer you hoped to hear. But the truth is, you being in charge of your self, and the re-enforcing your self-esteem and ability to make sensible choices is what it takes to weather the storm and come out on top.