I am a internet pornography junkie--it's wrecking my life. My girl friend gets totally disgusted with me when I try to get her to share it with me. She says it's all over between us unless I kick the habit. I try telling her it just harmless excitement, that all my pals do, and should in no way reflect on our relationship. She won't listen to the fact that my love transcends any trivial viewing of of outer life styles that are part of the modern world. More than a little hurt but to please her, I tried for month to not load my favorite porno site. I was shocked how strong the urge was and how quickly my other interests on the web bored me to death. I QUESTIONED MYSELF--Am I really porno addicted, when and how did it come to override my interest in news and sports? Further my girlfriend really hurt my feelings, literally--gut level, by saying "Don't get into your head that you and I are ever going to do any that disgusting perverse stuff you watch. Quit it or its over between us." Now I reallise I am ineting my erotic interests in a bunch ot total fictions run the show and that she is right that that in some sence this addiction also demeans her and kills some qualities of our sharing life together --even if that was not an intended affect. I now, after much denial recognizable I am addicted, I even can't sleep and feel totally miserable, when I don't get a fix of my cherished animated close up, action shots, super detailed nothing left to the imagination XXXX porno for hire. I am close to going nuts. What should I do?
What you should do is get into therapy before, your relationship life turns into a mockery of the real thing. Your girlfriend intuitivly recognizes that is where your relationship is headed. Ther is a opinion that prono adction is as difficult to treat as a cocaine addiction--A slight exaggeration in my opinion. My online hypnosis based experience is that by using a number of special hypno-scripts created with the focus being to create a transitions based on what the preferred sexual images mean to you personally and not its surface meanings. Then analyzing what happens to you thinking feelings and behavious after each script to bui;d the next appropriate one. This requires close cooperation to carry forward reinforcing results. This carried out overtime should lead to the to the result of you bing in charge of yourself and not diven by the porno addiction. This may require a series of hypno-scripts made to order for your particular issues and mind set. This process, with pornography once out of your life can improve several other aspects of your relationship life such as a more mature adult stance, better self-esteem and meaningful personal relationships. Not quick or easy and relapses can occur on the way to t to results. The with pornography issues is an important part of my hypnosis work at the present time.
Contact me for more details about on-line help when you are ready--.
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__Dr. Butler, DC, at Hypnosis_on_ line.com
